The People who Matter don't Care. & The People who don't matter, Care.

Stop putting all your energy into the things that don't matter in life, you are surrounded by people that love you and only want the best for you. Stand back, clean your lenses and see who cares. Often you will see who makes a big deal of a small deal matters least in your life. So many people now days take the wrong advice from the wrong people, This is a problem, why I say this is because the wrong people want to make themselves feel apart of your life and will most often leave you feeling in "no mans land" nearly 100% of the time.

People need to build people up with the building blocks of Love, All you need is love, Sounds very hippi and  soft but imagine you had to react professionally with LOVE, I mean who does that, That is why work is how it is today. There is no respect across boards, anger towards incompetence, no trust within circles.Think about this: All that you are today is because of you (either hard work or no work) and the people around you (Influenced in some sort of way). 

Most of the time when people have a problem with you or a hold of you. You will definitely be the last one to know about this at this point you will feel helpless and alone but remember that the people who matter love you and care for You!

Remember if people are judging you and speaking about in a negative light its because they are taking there sins that are hidden from the world out on You. When someone has committed a sin you will find that person will not judge you or condemn You, but they would rather pity you and pray or feel a sort of mercy for you, as they know how it felt to be in your shoes.

 "YOU ARE, Who YOU ARE and believe me God forgave You the second You were conceived"

I always say "If you wont regret it on your death bed, then don't regret it once you have done it" The body is left behind and the Soul lives on in eternity. Dont poison your soul with the reactions of people who don't matter in your life, take the love and the blessings when they come.

Once it is in the Light it is only you who can forgive yourself!

"The People who Matter don't Care. & The People who don't matter, Care."

The Birth of a good idea

Have you ever sat down and asked yourself what would make my life easier? Essentially that is how a good idea is conceived, I have heard and listened to many different people speak and write about great idea thinking and the only one that really stood out for me was the talk by @Clive Thompson. What he spoke about big ideas already being thought of already made me think harder, is it really a big idea if it has been thought of?

I began to dig deeper in to what people thought of big or great ideas are, and then it dawned on me, its only a big idea because it has been thought of already but there was no action towards the idea or even "the right place at the right time" even the right situation. The problem is that its not a needed idea and its the needed ideas that stand testament through time and face the tons of idea and critics out there.

Have you ever asked yourself what you need and what you would like for this issue or problem or that situation. For me that is the birth of a monumental idea... The need and want to solve a specific task swiftly and productively. That's an idea brain juices pumping eyes looking up to the heavens waiting for divine inspiration, head tilting from side to side, back and forth, hands blocking out the light to your eyes... Eureka? Nothing?

I Can go the Distance

People can say they have dreams, but I can say I became my dream. From when I can remember when I use to have thoughts of being someone who is respected and admired, was merely a little dream I had conceived in my mind one lonely night lying in bed. My thoughts would run rampant in my mind controlling, destroying my every positive thought that was keeping all the pieces of me together. Eventually falling asleep out of pure exhaustion waking up with the the first and only thought "Who is Matthew Simon", I don't know i have been asking myself this for a long time, So long that I have got it in point form of what people see "Matthew Simon" to be. Thats not good enough I kept saying not at all, cause if I don't even know who I am how will "Iam" KNOW! Yes as frustrating as it was finding out who "I Am" is, I eventually did it and it was not easy but in all its glory and humility I am "Matthew Simon". Sure you saying but that's just my name and surely out of 7 Billion humans on this planet there has to be more than one "Matthew Simon" so how could I be who I know "I am". 

Here is the best way to find out who you are I have done this on myself and on many other people and I can confidently and accurately come incredible close in telling you who you are. Please note that this is relating to me and not you...

I took the time to find what makes me laugh and makes me happy, Then I found that in a Disney movie and the Disney movie that relate to all me points is "Hercules"... It told it to me straight between the eyes, I was a clumsy teenager that had the greatest potential that I and no one can see, I let people saying things about me get to me I felt like an outcast, very unwanted as a friend and a companion, eventually seeking approval and a slap on the back from anyone. A song that was sung in the movie was  the Breaking deal for me, was a song sung by Hercules - Michael Bolton  "I can go the Distance"... I listen to this so at least once a week reminding myself that I do have what it takes and I "Matthew Simon" Can and will go the distance in order to get to my Mount Olympus...